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Sunday, November 13, 2005

 

Note: This entry was written a few days ago, while I was watching The Correspondents. However, I realized I had no internet connection when I was about to send it. I would still like to share this entry so even though it's late, I hope you read this and help me make a difference. Thanks.

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I have lost my urge to write...for quite a while atleast.

But right now, while I am watching The Correspondents, I suddenly felt like letting my feelings out.

I know I definitely have to write about this one.

First of all, my heart is breaking.

Imagine a prison full of old women. Old as in seniors. They have been staying there for more than century. One is blind, and the other was freed but through something she wouldn't have hoped for--death.

Most of the cases are minor yet they are paying their whole lives for it.

They are all different. But they all have two things in common: they are in jail, and they are poor.

This is injustice at its finest. Why are most (if not all) of the rich out when their cases even include rape or murder?

This. Is. Heart. Breaking.

I hope the President really puts her Power of Executive Clemency to good use, and give it to the right people.

As for me, I do hope to make a difference.

I just realize now how selfish I have been. Eversince I developed an allergy to fleas, bugs, mosquitoes and any insect for that matter, I have not been a very active member of the Philippine Animal Welfare Society. And maybe it's not really my fault that I can't be that active, but maybe too, I should have looked for other organizations where I could help make a difference.

For the longest time, I have done nothing but please myself. I would just do what I think is fun and well, beneficial to me.

But stories like the one I'm watching now move me and wake me up.

I feel blessed to be among the blessed, but I don't think it gives me the right to forget about the forgotten.

I am happy with my life now, but I am looking for more meaning, and I do know that if I start doing something for others and help even in the smallest way I can, I do know that I will be a hundred times more fulfilled.

So, I hope you can help me start moving for honestly, I don't know where to start. I want to help each and every needy but I know that would be too hard if not impossible. I don't want to be one of those who just talk and talk but don't do anything--ever. So maybe, just maybe you can help me by answering this question.

In your opinion, what are the three institutions/ volunteer groups/ charity programs/ etc that need the most attention? If you were me, which institutions/ programs would you help during your free time? Why?

And if it's not too much to ask, can you please let me know how I can help and please do put the contact numbers.

I know donations help a lot, but I prefer to give my time.

I will be waiting. Thank You So Much.

 Posted 11/13/2005 7:30 PM - 991 Views - 28 eProps - 22 comments

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I suggest the Philippine National Red Cross and any other program involving kids, especially the sick ones. If you want to reach out to sick kids confined at the Philippine General Hospital and make them happy this Christmas, just tell me. Good luck! :)
Posted 11/13/2005 10:13 PM by teddyIII - reply

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I suggest you go participate in Kythe Foundation. A foundation that caters to the psychosocial needs of pediatric patients mostly Cancer patients. You do playroom activities, bedside activities, etc...

I attended the orientation last Saturday. And I'll be on my first volunteer work this week.

Join ka na rin!

CLENG

Posted 11/14/2005 12:50 AM by accoloma - reply

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Leng, try Greenpeace. I know you love the beach and nature and I think it's perfect for you to volunteer for. Sadly, most of their activities are held on weekdays but I do my part for writing jobs. Right now, they need volunteers as ushers/activity facilitators for the visiting Rainbow Warrior. Do visit their site. ^_^ I'd recommend Red Cross too since their scope is widespread. We all know how crucial blood is to humans, right? ^_^ Oh, what happened to PAWS? You almost don't post anything about it anymore. ^_^ The best factor  in choosing for your volunteerism is your interests. What makes you tick? That way, you won't tire or bore out of it easily. ^_^
Posted 11/14/2005 12:56 PM by floicute8 - reply

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floi: i'm still a part of paws but i can't join activities with animals much kasi i developed an allergy kainis talaga. like i get these red spots all the time. so yun...

thank you guys.

i actually celebrated my birthday once with the cancer patients na kids nga because i have a friend who's a kythe volunteer. paws also had an event with kythe so yeah that's an option i'm considering.:)

thanks guys. hope i get more.:)

Posted 11/14/2005 11:01 PM by hipstah - reply

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What floi said was right, "the best factor in choosing your volunteerism is your interests". So like the others, my first instinct was to suggest those two foundations (The Red Cross and Kythe) which do many great things and have many room for volunteers.

But the truth is, there are many many foundations out there with many many different needs. I suggest you finding one that is both close to your heart and something in line with the industry/field you'll be getting into. Your everyday work fuels your passion even more, gives you knowledge about the injustices that actually happen, and actually empowers you to do something about it. (eg, becoming a doctor -- aside from my livelihood -- exposed me to understand what people need, and I use my knowledge of medicine to help them).

Lastly, through the years, I learned that sometimes you don't need to find a big foundation to help. If you want to give time, instead of money, then I suggest you finding a small community that you can take care of. One that you can constantly go to and visit regularly where you can share the skills that you have.

If more people did small things, what a big difference it would make. :)

Posted 11/15/2005 8:16 AM by mrdents - reply

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mrdents: thing is, i have too many interests. hehehe. so i really don't know where to start.

i'm interested in kythe, greenpeace, red cross...pero....i think they're too known na marami na silang volunteers. gets? not that i don't wanna join but tama ka, i think maraming mas nangangailangan....:)

Posted 11/15/2005 2:02 PM by hipstah - reply

hello, i learned from your previous post that you transfered to UP. while you're in it, you might wish to check out the UP Ugnayang Pahinungod. I'm just not too sure if they renamed it, or reformatted the program (this i sort of heard before i left). But they do have several outreach programs like teaching/tutoring kids, teaching sports to special children, visiting home for the aged, etc. I used to do para-legal service. We visited inmates at QC jail and helped them follow-up their cases (adjudication sched, contacting their families or lawyers etc) at the QC hall of justice. They have PAO lawyers (some of them don't have the faintest idea who exactly, or that having one is even possible). Unfortunately, it appears like some of those lawyers, rarely if at all, take time to visit them let alone explain to them what they're really up against or what exactly the process is. You'd really be surprised some of them are there longer than neccessary because they do not have the necessary representations. Imagine there was this guy who's detained for years on charges of gambling--getting caught in a cara y cruz game in public (some toss coin sugal?). He could've gotten out sooner (in a few month's time if he can't afford the bail) but he didn't know who to talk to or what to do...

True, there's so much injustice in the world, and we're only talking about those that get media attention. Good luck =) 

Posted 11/17/2005 1:15 PM by Anonymous - reply

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Hi Paula! I've been a silent reader of your blog for the past couple of months. (My sister was actually your batchmate at Holy, and my other sister was your sister's batchmate. I also met your sister when her former show taped episodes at our house.)

Anyway, I just wanted to suggest Philippine Jesuit Prison Service (PJPS) as another NGO that is in dire need of volunteers. They visit and do paralegal work with the inmates of New Bilibid Prison, as well as the families of the inmates. They also work with the inmates of Correctional Institution for Women, albeit to a more limited degree because of the small staff size. (When I was still based in the Philippines, I used to tag along with someone from PJPS whenever he would visit CIW, and I still visit CIW whenever I go home.) If you're interested, let me know.

Take care!

Posted 11/30/2005 11:01 AM by di_soulseeker - reply

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Hi Paula! Just dropping by..hehe.. Ive always wanted to do missionary works.. If you like travelling that would be fun... you join a certain mission... travel to india, dominican republic..etc ..u choose which mission you'd like to do...such as maybe feeding the hungry.. giving education to poor children... visiting people w/ AIDS etc.. i'm not sure where to find the groups that form such things sa Philippines..maybe trying surfing the net..=T Take care! I miss you! Happy Holidays!
Posted 1/6/2006 7:30 AM by IvEeJoOsE - reply

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aaw... i got to watch that also and it breaks my heart to know that some of them dies without even seeing their love ones back at home.
Posted 1/23/2006 6:55 PM by cherryl_cordora - reply

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hi ther Paula, you haven't updated ur site? what happened? curious though.. busy in school? how are you..

Marissa

Posted 1/31/2006 6:10 PM by Marsci - reply

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1. Ayela Foundation

2. IRRI, get Kellogg foundation to give money to IRRI.

3. Red Cross, the help a lot of the Hurricain victims in New Orleans.

To bad you don't have moveon.org

http://jonbird.net

Posted 2/10/2006 1:33 AM by fluideagle - reply

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If you want to help animals try this---->

http://peta.org

Posted 2/10/2006 1:40 AM by fluideagle - reply

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I've also watched that particular episode in The Correspondents where they featured about the oldies who haplessly lived in prison for years.. it made me feel sad and downcasted when i heard their own stories.. but it was sadder to learn that few of them only got the chance to go out and be with their families (at last!)....
Posted 3/8/2006 1:46 PM by superxanne - reply

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Hi There,

I heard Gawad Kalinga 777 is a life changing program.... both for recipients and supporters.  maybe you can try at least ? www.gawadkalinga.org.  look at this videos as examples (http://www.gawadkalinga.org/marc/128_windowsmediaformat.wmv  and http://www.gawadkalinga.org/videos/warner_manning.wmv) and this website: http://diariofilipino.50webs.com/2005/edi_wilk.html ...very inspirational.  I now live in Australia but still supports this program to help poorest of the poors in Philippines.

Cheers

Posted 3/15/2006 10:25 AM by ltdane2 - reply

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Hi Paula!  Nice blog...seems like you're a nice person.  Please visit my BLOG when you have the chance.  ALOHAS!!
Posted 3/17/2006 8:36 AM by simply_cutie808 - reply

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try to check this site--->www.hungersite.com

Posted 3/20/2006 1:19 PM by Marsci - reply

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Let us support our co-blogger Bianca Gonzalez.

She is now nominated in Pinoy Big Brother

Celebrity Edition.

Text BB BIANCA

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Thank You.

Posted 3/21/2006 10:29 AM by georginablue - reply

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I really look up to you... you're concern for others. I hope a lot of people would be as compassionate and as helpful as you. -xoxo-
Posted 4/2/2006 8:31 PM by loser_ish_000 - reply

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I really look up to you... your concern for others. I hope a lot of people would be as compassionate and as helpful as you. -xoxo-
Posted 4/2/2006 8:32 PM by loser_ish_000 - reply

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hi..read your blog about old women in prison,,,you are right its actually living hell for them and most of them are dying inside one by one due to depression or sickness isee them being carried one by one with my own 2 eyes..why and how??because my last living relative is one of those women in there...the environment inside is so difficult,,,you wouldnt know who to trust..we sought for help already but unfortunately we were left hanging in the air...now i really dont know who to ask help for about her matter even the president seems deaf about this issue,,,my grandama has been serving for 11 years she was sent to prison when i was 7 just 3 months after my father died,,and now im 17 i cant help but want to od something about it i mean i wouldnt want to see her end up like the others...who died waiting in vain....i have so much to say since i have practically spent my years growing up seeing them grow even older and more wearier in prison....i dint understand why justice seems so far away for people like us who cant even afford to pay a lawyer..wont somebody defend women like them??im not saying this just for my grandma but for all those other mothers and grandmothers who are still suffering inside....

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Posted 5/25/2006 9:55 PM by purpleflush - reply

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hi..just came across your blog..i know how you feel about these women...and how they are living hell here on earth...my last realtive is actually with those women in jail serving life sentence for somehing she wansnt even proven guilty of...the environment there is absolutely sickening...its actually hard since i practically spent my years growing up visiting her every week and most of the time i catch them carrying the dead ones around to be taken by the  morgue...most of these old ladies die of depression of sickness and one by one they die slowly in vain....hoping they come home,,,,i dont want to see my grandma end up that way.we tried asking for help but unfortunately we were left hanging in the air even the lady president seems deaf about this issue..i was 7 when she was sent to jail..3 months after my dad died and now im 17 i want to do something about it.i dont want her to leave me,,i dont want to see her die in there...its absolutely heart breakin to see them that way,,i have so much more to say,,i m not just saying this for my grandma but for the other women there who are silently abused,,,others silently dying...i wish someone would help openheartedly to those who like us who cant even afford to pay a lawyer to defend us..i think they really all deserve to go home to thier families and spent the rest of thier living days on earth happy ...

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Posted 5/25/2006 10:05 PM by purpleflush - reply


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